so you're asking for advice (do you really want the truth?)

So I've mostly worked for very kind, loving families who consider me more than a 'nanny' and who consider me a part of their extended families. At times, though, as often happens with siblings, parents, and close friends, there comes a moment when they ask your opinion. And you really have to contemplate whether or not to tell them the truth. It's always happened and I tend to avoid telling the truth in most instances so as not to overstep any boundaries or to awaken any underlying power dynamics that I work to overcome.